Nigerian music legend, Paul Okoye, popularly known as Rudeboy of the Psquare duo, has shared his opinion on what couples should patronise in relationships.

The singer took to his Instagram story, highlighting what he believes can foster respect and balance in relationships and dynamics with partners.

According to him, while men are often expected to shoulder most responsibilities, relationships become stronger when women occasionally step in to support their partners.

He described such actions as not only beneficial but also a sign of strength and true partnership.

Rudeboy wrote:

“I know men are meant to do everything — responsibilities and all — but the biggest flex is when your woman, once in a while, in a blue moon, takes care of some certain things… that’s a massive FLEX.”

His comments have since sparked discussions online, with many fans debating whether modern relationships should be built on shared responsibilities rather than traditional roles.

See some comments below

@d3mzee___"My girl took me out on a date, my girl bought me this. See as e sweet to talk"

@keenn_eth___"I can never marry a broke woman because I'm not broke"

@EtinergyX___"So it's a big flex for a woman to take care of things that both of them will benefit from? Omo! Men really dey try for this earth."

@DRZOEADEOLA___"The truth is men are not meant to do everything, the woman should step in and support the man consistently, the mentality of men should do everything is what has killed alot of men and destroyed alot of marriages, marriage is definitely a form of partnership and they are meant to support, complement and make life easy for each other"

@MaziChubby___"If you like date or marry broke stingy women, your eyes will peel."

@Caesarinny____"This guy needs to go register for adult education. He types like Portable."

"I know men are meant to do everything but the biggest flex is when your woman once in a while takes care of some certain things" – Singer, Rudeboy says pic.twitter.com/5TlmnKMwem

— YabaLeftOnline (@yabaleftonline) September 16, 2025