Efe Johnson, a Nigerian lady, has described the terms and limitations her estranged boyfriend placed on her during their time together.

The young lady claims that after warning her against going to a certain church, her ex-boyfriend joined it following their breakup.

Efe Johnson also revealed that her ex-boyfriend encouraged her not to pursue her master's degree overseas, which she called a self-serving request.

Taking to her Twitter page, the lady wrote, “I once dated someone who told me I couldn’t attend a church but became a member of that church immediately after we split. I’m dissecting with my therapist, and you don’t realize how crazy some things are until after. Again, women with a purpose need to stay away from insecure men,” she wrote.

It’s insane reviewing timestamps. “Can’t go to that church, won’t do a masters abroad, must do this, must do that” and it’s mostly after the woman starts to earn more and travel more. Phew. If anything, human nature is selfish, and insecure men are a weapon.”

I once dated someone who told me I couldn't attend a church but became a member of that church immediately we split.

I'm dissecting with my therapist, and you don't realise how crazy some things are until after. Again, women with a purpose need to stay away from insecure men .

— Efe Johnson (@theefejohnson) January 18, 2025