Entertainment of Monday, 24 February 2025

Source: www.mynigeria.com

People in abusive relationships see the signs but stay because of benefits - Ruggedman

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Nigerian rapper and activist Michael Ugochukwu Stephens, popularly known as Ruggedman, has shared his thoughts on domestic violence in relationships.

He mentioned that provocations could lead to domestic violence and are sufficient reasons for a breakup.

During a recent interview with TVC, Ruggedman stated that people in abusive relationships usually see the red flags but choose to stay in the relationship.

He said, “I always tell any woman I intend to date that if she pushes me to the level where I think of hitting her, then it’s over.

“I say that because, for me to want to date someone, it means I’ve told her everything that triggers me. So, for you to now push that thing, it means you’re poking me. I would rather walk away than hit the person.

“I once broke up with a lady because she pushed me in public when we were having a disagreement, despite my pleading with her to wait until we got home to settle the issue.

“A lot of people in abusive relationships saw the red flags but remained in the relationship because of what they were benefiting. Also, some of them are afraid of leaving because of public opinion. It’s better to leave because if you die in an abusive relationship, people will still talk.”