Nigerian screenwriter opens up on main problem with dating outside one's class

Twitter user Ehi Enabs recently took to the platform to share her thoughts about dating outside one's class

According to her, the problem lies in the lack of shared experiences between the partners

Ehi believes this often leads to insecurity in the partner who is less financially buoyant.

Over the last few days, an argument about dating outside one's league has continued to trend online following the ongoing BBNaija drama revolving around Erica, Laycon and Kiddwaya.

A Nigerian lady recently joined the conversation, sharing her thoughts on where the problem lies in dating outside one's class.

Identified as Ehi Enabs, she believes having a lack of shared experience in one's relationship is the main problem with dating or marrying outside one's class.

The main problem with dating outside your class is the lack of shared experience.

According to her, this often leads to insecurity issues in the relationship.

She wrote: "The main problem with dating or marrying outside your class is the lack of shared experience. One person will be talking, and the other one go think say e dey brag. Or the day you'll see you upper classed bae physically recoil from something you like because the poverty stinks. Next thing, you don take am personal because insecurity."

In response, a Twitter user agreed with her. @ArimahTobe replied: "Low key, you have a point. I Remember some of my ex-girlfriends From 'poorer' backgrounds

They always scrutinized how I spent money, they can quarrel with me because I bought something that was maybe N500-1000 more expensive. Or spend hrs in the market bcos they are 'pricing'."

Meanwhile, talented Nigerian singer, Tiwa Savage, may have given some men hope after she took to the platform to reveal she isn't hard to get.

This happened after a Twitter user, @SNanyome, took to the platform to state that Tiwa Savage is his type when it comes to dating but that was highly impossible since he wasn't financially buoyant and such a lady would have needs.

The singer responded to his tweet with an interesting message. She wrote: "Nah, I'm not hard to get, I'm hard to earn."

In other news, a lady took to Twitter to recount how she was made a wife on National Girlfriend’s Day. @Zeecardy recounted how her man proposed to her in a unique way despite them not being in close proximity.

The year 2020 has been a tough one for many people but it has not stopped many others from finding their own happiness and sticking with it.