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Entertainment of Tuesday, 11 February 2020

Source: MyNigeria

Mercy Aigbe opens up on the first time her husband slapped her

*Mercy Aigbe opens up on the first time her husband slapped her*

Actress Mercy Aigbe has recounted her experience in the hands of her estranged husband, Lanre Gentry, whom she claims slapped her.

In a video she shared on her newly opened Youtube channel, Mercy Aigbe, whose marital crisis became major news in 2017, told her fans a bit of the domestic violence she suffered,

“The first time the slap came, it felt like I was dreaming. I wasn’t expecting it and I was shocked beyond words. I didn’t know it was going to happen but it happened. The begging would then come after that. Once a man raises his hand to hit you, he is going to do it over and again. However, because it was my second attempt (at marriage), I was ready to make it work, even with all the violence. I was there hoping and praying. I just wanted a happy home.

“The incident that broke the camel’s back was the one where I almost died. The beating was horrible. People often say actresses don’t want to remain married. Who told them that? (You think) being a celebrity doesn’t make me human? Does (being a celebrity) mean I don’t want to have a happy home? They say actresses are promiscuous but promiscuity is not (the exclusive preserve of) any profession. When mine (break-up) happened, it wasn’t easy because I am a celebrity. I read a lot of things online. Some people even said I made it up. But, nobody can dictate to me how to live my life.”

Mercy Aigbe went on to encourage women to speak up when they find themselves experience similar situation.

“I have been through domestic violence and I came out strong. I would love to see the end of domestic violence in society. It wasn’t easy for me because society always shames one. Everybody believes if one is experiencing domestic violence, one has to be patient as a woman and take it all to remain in one’s husband’s house. A lot of people have lost their lives as a result of domestic violence. And religion is not helping. An assaulted woman could go to her pastor and the cleric would say, ‘Oh madam, you need to keep praying’. Is it until she loses her life?”

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