Media personality Toke Makinwa has shared relationship advice for women, encouraging them to pay close attention to a man’s character when choosing a life partner.

Taking to her Instagram Story, Makinwa reflected on the qualities she believes are essential in a healthy and lasting relationship. According to her, women should value a man who checks on them after a disagreement to ensure they are okay, instead of someone who withdraws and leaves them to deal with emotional hurt alone.

She emphasized the importance of choosing a partner who remains committed during difficult moments and prioritizes understanding over the need to be right in every argument.

Makinwa further noted that a man who can set aside his pride, comfort his partner, and offer a genuine apology because he values the relationship above his ego is the kind of person worth building a future with.

Her words…

“Marry the man who calls you after an argument just to make sure you’re okay.

Not the one who leaves you alone with your tears. Choose the man who stays when things get hard and wants to understand you, not defeat you.

A man who can pause, hold you, and say ‘I’m sorry’, because your relationship matters more to him than his ego”.