Media personality VJ Adams has expressed thoughts on how men approach dating, calling out the shallow criteria some use to select partners.

He contrasts this with how women often prioritise meaningful qualities like career or integrity when assessing potential partners.

He said in a video: “How far, young boys ehn. How is it that up until now, you people still don’t have sense? Don’t worry I will help you, that’s why I’m here. Look at your female friends, you see when they’re discussing among themselves and one of them introduces the new man she met. The first thing they do is ask what he does for work. And if they ask for his picture, is just to make sure that the man hasn’t toasted them before”.

According to VJ Adams, men tend to focus more on physical appearance, which he believes is a flawed approach.

He encouraged young men to adopt a more thoughtful approach when evaluating relationships, emphasising the importance of looking beyond physical attributes.

“But you see you boys you’re idiots. You just talk about her body, fools! You never ask important questions”, he added.