Irregular sex leading to failure of many marriages in Nigeria – Counsellor reveals

A marriage counsellor, Mrs. Bosede Ola-Samuel has revealed a key reason behind the failures of marriages in the country.

According to Mrs Ola-Samuel, irregular sexual activities among couples are one of the major factors behind the dissolution of marriages.

She made this known while delivering a lecture titled “Dangers of Irregular Sex” during the ‘Veterans Day’ which was part of the activities for 2023 Nigeria Union of Journalists (NUJ) Oyo State Council Press Week.

She noted that many women endure their marriages rather than enjoy them adding that many women are subjected to an unenjoyable, irregular sex life by their husbands.

The marriage counsellor narrated that “many men act like helicopters whose engine kicks and takes off immediately, whereas their women are like aeroplanes which must be kicked by its pilot and made to taxi a long distance before eventually taking off.”

She added that the number one sex organ of any woman is not her breast but her mind.

She noted that many wives reject sexual advances from their husbands “because their body is not moved by what they see, unlike men that see women’s private regions and immediately get moved and are ready for action.

“Many women as aeroplanes begin sex enjoyment when the helicopter in their husbands has completed flying and lands.

“And immediately his helicopter touches the ground, he turns to face the wall, leaving the aeroplane’s engine to groan. That is a fire brigade approach which turns many of us off when the issue of sex comes in.”

NBA