BBNaijaAllStars: Carry yourself respectfully - Doyin advises Ilebaye

In a surprising turn of events inside the BBNaijaAllStars2023 house, housemate Doyin took it upon herself to offer some candid advice to her fellow housemate, Ilebaye, following a series of verbal abuses directed at her by other housemates.

The drama unfolded after Ilebaye became the target of Tolanibaj’s verbal attacks, seemingly stemming from her choice to spend time in bed with Neo in a different lodge.

Doyin, unable to stand idly by, decided to intervene and have a heart-to-heart conversation with Ilebaye to address the concerning situation.
During the conversation, Doyin emphasised the importance of self-respect and how it influences the way others treat an individual.

She stressed, “There’s a way you carry yourself, and people won’t feel the need to talk to you anyhow.” Doyin further advised Ilebaye not to be too overly friendly, stating, “Cross is your friend, Kidd is your friend; if they want to spend a night with you, let them come to your bed.”

Ilebaye tried to clarify that she had only slept in Cross’ bed, but Doyin firmly reminded her that the specifics didn’t matter as the key was to evaluate her overall behaviour.

Doyin cited an example, noting how Ilebaye followed Neo to his bed during a previous game, even after he had publicly yelled at her.

Concerned about Ilebaye’s well-being, Doyin emphasized the impact of hurtful words on one’s self-esteem, urging her to re-evaluate her actions. She advised, “With the words people said to you between yesterday and today, you should sit back and re-evaluate. Try to carry yourself more respectfully.”

However, Ilebaye seemed to have a nonchalant response, claiming that she doesn’t take life seriously. Doyin, understanding the gravity of the situation, quickly reminded her that being part of the BBNaijaAllStars2023 show meant she is now a brand, and not taking life seriously could result in losing valuable opportunities.

Doyin also didn’t shy away from commenting on Ilebaye’s involvement with Neo. She boldly pointed out that Neo’s actions showed a lack of care towards her, stating, “Neo doesn’t care about you. If he cared about you, he wouldn’t have allowed that to happen to you without saying a word.”

In her final advice, Doyin urged Ilebaye not to rely solely on what boys tell her but rather pay attention to how they treat her. She concluded, “Respect yourself more and don’t be overly everywhere!!!”

As the days progress, it remains to be seen how Ilebaye will take Doyin’s advice to heart and how it may impact her journey in the reality show.