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General News of Thursday, 30 January 2020

Source: www.mynigeria.com

Nigerian lawyer gives reason why men should cheat on fiancee before marriage

Chidi Ogudu Chidi Ogudu

Nigerian lawyer, Chidi Ogudu has advised men to cheat on their fiancee before they embark on marrying her.

According to him, cheating on their fiancee, which has to be done at least twice, will help them discover the tolerance level of the lady.

He wrote on Facebook:

"Before you marry any woman, allow her to catch you cheating at least twice. That way you can be sure of her tolerance level and emotional maturity. That way you can be very sure if she has the fear of God and spirit of forgiveness. Real love is all about forgiveness".

In another post, Chidi Ogudu spoke against critics of cheating because marrying more than one wife is what's obtainable with African men.

"Forget about zee world and other foreign movies. A man cannot be punished for cheating in Africa culture. It is not in Africa's cultural dictionary. In Africa, a man has the right to marry as many women as he wants. No woman has a right to question his husband on his choice. Cheating is a white man's grammar. It is not our culture. Even in the Bible, God's best friends like David, Abraham, Isaac, and even the wisest and richest man that ever lived Solomon had many women. When David met with barsheba, God did not kill David or stab him. But there is no where in the bible that God allowed any woman to marry more than one man. Women out of jealousy developed this law of cheating and now enforce it with wickedness. Cheating to a woman's mind can mean anything. Anything she can imagine against her man can make him liable for cheating and she will never ever allow you to defend yourself. No man should be killed because of cheating. There is no law that gives any woman the right to kill an innocent man because of his private choice . Even in the bible, God did not kill any man for that. God knows its harder for men because men are like trailer, their brake is very hard to catch. God allowed Abraham to meet hagar his maid. Even Sarah did not stab Abraham for that. An African man cannot be guilty of cheating because our culture gives every man the freedom to choose his private taste of women. In Africa, men do not cheat because it is their right to have more than one woman. Nobody can take away that right"

Reacting to the news of Maryam Sanda who got sentenced to death for killing her husband over infidelity, Chidi Ogudu wrote:

"I am not saying that I am going to cheat on my future wife oooooooo. But please biko let me start begging you in advance. Don't stab me oooooooo because of ordinary cheating. The Bible said that you have to forgive 77 times 7. I will certainly change. Just pray, help me to cast the devil. Watch war room. Avoid ndi ifenemenisi (feminist). What's yours is yours. Agaracha must cum bak".