There is a usual occurrence in organizations, and I have seen it happen too many times. A manager, red-faced and agitated, unleashing a torrent of words at a team member in front of everyone else. The recipient of this outburst stands there, shoulders hunched, eyes downcast, with dignity stripped away like the bark of a tree.

At the end of the shouting, the irony is that nothing is achieved except resentment, fear, and a workplace culture that slowly rots from within. When leaders raise their voices at their team members, it is not a demonstration of strength or authority but an exposure of a fundamental weakness which is the inability to manage oneself.

The import of leadership should never be to bruise the ego of those that are led. A leader’s role is to build people up and not tear them down. When leaders shout, they erect an invisible barrier between themselves and their team members. That barrier, once built, is difficult to dismantle. The truth is that many leaders’ shouts are a revelation of emotional bankruptcy.

Shouting shows that one has run out of ideas. It shows a feeling of being powerless. Shouting is an indication that one lacks the emotional intelligence to articulate one’s concerns in a measured and constructive manner. Let’s be clear: shouting is not communication. Yelling is not leadership. It is rather the opposite. It is the abdication of leadership.

The story of Satya Nadella, CEO of Microsoft, comes to mind. Early in his tenure, he inherited a company culture notorious for its internal competition and aggressive management style. This in some parlance is called a “dog-eat-dog” environment. Nadella could have maintained that approach. He had every positional lever at his disposal. Instead, he did something radical. He listened and asked questions. He created psychological safety. He replaced the shout with the conversation. Under his leadership, Microsoft’s market value soared, but more importantly, employee engagement was transformed. Nadella understood what many leaders miss: when you have genuine authority rooted in respect rather than fear, you don’t need volume, you need clarity.

Shouting does not make your communication more effective. It only makes it intimidating. And there is a world of difference between the two. Effective communication achieves understanding. It creates alignment. It moves people from point A to point B with clarity and purpose. Intimidation, on the other hand, creates compliance but only temporarily. It breeds the kind of obedience that evaporates the moment you leave the room. Your team members might do what you say in that moment, but they will not give you their discretionary effort, their creativity, or their loyalty.

While Travis Kalanick was at Uber, his aggressive and confrontational management style which included public outbursts and a culture of shouting, was normalized. This may have driven rapid growth, but it also drove the company into crisis. Sexual harassment scandals, legal battles, and a toxic workplace culture forced the board to push him out. This shows that you can shout your way to short-term results, but you will incinerate long-term sustainability.

On the other hand, Indra Nooyi, the former CEO of PepsiCo was known for writing personal letters to the parents of her executives, thanking them for raising such talented individuals. She created a culture of respect and appreciation. She didn’t need to raise her voice to command attention. Her thoughtfulness, her strategic clarity, and her genuine care for people earned her the respect that no amount of shouting ever could.

Your colleagues, direct reports and your team members are not animals. They are human beings with families, aspirations, insecurities, and pride. When you shout at them, you dehumanize them. And in dehumanizing them, you diminish yourself. The best leaders share a common trait: they treat people with dignity even in difficult moments. They understand that how you make people feel is as important as what you make them do. If these words have resonated with you and if you know you have been that leader who shouts, please note that it is not too late to change. Leadership is not about perfection; it is about progress.

Start by examining what triggers your outbursts. Is it stress? Is it insecurity? Is it the lack of tools or training in how to have difficult conversations? Whatever the root cause, it can be addressed. Get a coach. Read a book on emotional intelligence. Practice having hard conversations when you are calm, not reactive. When you feel the urge to shout rising in your chest, pause. Take a breath. Step away if you need to. Then return to the conversation when you can address the issue rather than attack the person. Please remember that your voice is a tool and not a weapon. Use it to clarify, to encourage, to correct when necessary but never to crush.

Finally, authority is not volume. Leadership is not mastering the loudest voice in the room; it is mastering the language that brings people closer to the work and to each other. Stop shouting. Start speaking with purpose, clarity and respect and you will get better results.

Oluwole Dada is the General Manager at SecureID Limited, Africa’s largest smart card manufacturing plant in Lagos, Nigeria.