Value the clarity of a NO- Omojuwa speaks on sexual consent

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Public speaker and political commentator, Japheth Omojuwa has taught young men to value the importance of consent in a relationship, especially amongst sexually active partners.

Taking to the timeline this morning, he advised guys to stop playing themselves.

"As a guy, especially if you value your future, you must value the clarity of “no” as much as you do “yes”. Some will return to say they didn’t mean it but you must always help whoever tells you “no” to mean it. Don’t play yourself. Never ever set yourself up," he said.

As a guy, especially if you value your future, you must value the clarity of “no” as much as you do “yes”. Some will return to say they didn’t mean it but you must always help whoever tells you “no” to mean it. Don’t play yourself. Never ever set yourself up.
— JJ. Omojuwa (@Omojuwa) May 30, 2020

Going further, he advised guys to stop having sex like animals.

"Do it like a doctor. Ask questions. Ask if it’s working. Ask if they like it. Listen for unpleasant words, seek clarity. It helps for consent but it also means you care enough for the person. Stop having sex like you are hiding from your parents," he added.

And don’t have sex like animals. Do it like a doctor. Ask questions. Ask if it’s working. Ask if they like it. Listen for unpleasant words, seek clarity. It helps for consent but it also means you care enough for the person. Stop having sex like you are hiding from your parents.
— JJ. Omojuwa (@Omojuwa) May 30, 2020

The Mediapreneur said lovers should not be carried away with the “we are in love” or “we are in a relationship” slang. He said all things could change in a second when false accusations begin.

Don’t get carried away by “we are in love” or “we are in a relationship”. It takes literally half a second for things to change. Trust me, it does. Don’t take anything for granted. Be a gentleman at all times. Especially when it’s hardest to do so.
— JJ. Omojuwa (@Omojuwa) May 30, 2020

MyNigeria.com believes the Author of the Digital Wealth Book is lending his voices to trending issues occurring on Twitter this morning between two influencers, Sansa and Tife.

In a painful twist that turned the couples love sour, Sansa accused Tife of raping her and manipulating her. Tife in his defence fired back that they had consensual sex. Several parties have differed over this controversial matters that has has gone out of hand and damaged their reputation as a result.

After I read this Tife and Sansa's Gist, I woke my GF up.

Baby have I raped you before? She said No

Do you enjoy sex with me? She said Of course, maybe because most times I initiate it.

I was recording it. I've saved it on Google drive, laptop, hard disk, icloud, memory card.
— Chlorpheniramine ???????? (@VictorIsrael_) May 30, 2020